Saturday, October 13, 2007

Boyfriends

Boyfriends - What importance do they have in any girl's life? Is it necessary to have one? Cant we be happy without having one? Why does the need of a boyfriend arises? If a girl doesnt have a boyfriend, why do we think that there is something wrong.

Its her choice to stay like that. Also if she wants someone who can be more than just a boyfriend, her decision should be respected. The general thinking is that the girl is not normal if she doesnt have a boyfriend, whereas the girl is much more happier without one. Her idea is she doesnt want to have one just for the sake of it. Except for love, they have everything for each other.. If the girl is not ready for a relationship like this, what wrong is she doing? The idea behind this reluctance is, she does not want to feel as 'used' at the end of it. She is not ready for a one night stand, which most of the boys want to end the relationship into.

Also, what I fail to understand is, why so much of importance is given to having a boyfriend. What purpose do they serve in any girl's life? Are they needed so that the girl can move around easily.. have someone who will pay for her, take her out.. go for dinners, movies.. spend time with each other... If there is no love, then have a simple friendship with boys and be not to get into any emotional stuff.

The whole problem starts when the girl becomes emotional whereas the boy is not ready for it. The blame game starts.. Accusations, tears, shouts, misunderstandings... it can go to any level.. Sometimes the whole affair can become so serious, that it may lead to suicide.. It may not happen with everyone but, yes, it can get scary at times..

The idea is, if you want to have fun.. Go ahead.. Have your intentions clear.. Boyfriends are not as necessary as we think them, to be.. Girls, you are much better off, without them..

3 comments:

raj said...

:) thanks for the comments on my blog.. well, this is strange, I am left confused. It has taken over an year to fix something, yet the gurl acts stupid, well what I am coming down to is, Love in not scarce in guys only, it can be the other way round too. m definitely doing good without a gurlfrnd, someone whom I wanted to marry, have a home with and I planned my whole future around it, and like Linkin Park says .." in the end...it doesnt even matter!"Id like to ask you one thing before I finish this, have you ever been in a relationship? ( not an affair)?

Soulmate said...

I am not saying that love is scarce in boys. What I am trying to say is, its not necessary to have a boyfriend.
There is a difference.

Achilles said...

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