Thursday, June 28, 2007

Infidelity

Ok, so after pre-marital sex comes another one: Infidelity. Like the previous post on pre-marital sex I shall try not to bring my opinion here...

Similar to pre-marital sex, infidelity also has its own takes.... You dont want to cheat on your partner but still you go ahead with it.... Is it because of something that is lacking at home and people try to find outside.. Is it that people dont know how to be satisfied with what they have! Well, everyone has their own reasons for getting into it... There are problems at home which lead them to infidelity. They find that much needed peace, comfort, love, solace in the company of someone else outside marriage... The other person in this infidelity relationship has his own reasons to step into it....

Some are there just to have fun.... The person can be of either sex and not necessarily be a man.... Some also tend to have that tendency of 'one in the hand and one in the bush'... Some are there to actually comfort the other person while some are themselves going through a bad phase in life, which they feel that the spouse is unable to understand...

Whatever the reasons may be, there is always a 'hitch' involved... There is a fear of 'what next'... In many situations, the relationship goes beyond emotional bonding and lands up being a physical one as well.... Somewhere in the corner of the heart, there is a guilt involved.. Even though both the partners are aware of it, still they try to ignore it...

The outcome of this relationship can be quite scary.. Still people go for it and it is beyond my understanding... If the present relationship is not working or you have fallen out of love its better to walk out of it, rather than land up in 'Infidelity'....

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