Tuesday, May 01, 2007

Pre-Marital Sex

Well, this is quite a controversial topic... I am generally thinking about this since a long time. Its been in my head since I hear about this all the while around me. There are a lot a of reasons and logic associated with it. I will try not to give my opinion here.

When you know the person with whom, you are doing it, is the one you love the most. You have not decided about the future. But it is more of love than just being a physical act to you. You want to do it with that person who gives you the comfort in all the time. Also the person never forced you into it. The topic just came up... In the beginning you were reluctant, but eventually you accepted because you love the person so much that you dont think it would be wrong to do 'it'. On top of it, the person never makes you feel awkward about it. He is open to the fact whether you two get married or not. There is no emotional blackmail attached, no force. Its an open option. You two share the best of comfort level, undertstanding.

The logic is that you have the experience of it. What if you never get married in your life, then you'll be deprived of something which is everybody's need at some age. There is a time and age for everything. You dont want to end up being someone who never experienced something which is beautiful and gives pleasure.

My say would be: Those who want to do it.. go ahead and do it.. Experience it. But be careful... Those who dont want to do it, dont do it.. It does not make sense to do it out of compulsion or force.

Whether it is right or wrong, I dont know!

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

ha ha ha ... felt like as if i was reading some school going child's essay on it ...

...somewhere ' felt as You were writing ... to ... (well, let's leave it)

eh! ... i have read You earlier too ... n you write good ... may be that is the reason for my such high expectations from You ...


You must have heard about 'Abhimaneu' ... hmmm ... You got me ...
similarly, here too ... You seem to be just sharing the first element ... that is, getting into it ...
however, i would love to hear You on the second element ... n that is ... the Life After ...

anyway, how was London ??? must have had nice time ...

...Lakhwant.
C/o http://www.BraveHearts.info


... please doNot Publish this message ... et all ...

Anonymous said...

... kindly delete the comment above n this one too ...
i never knew these would be published (without Your permission)

...Lakhwant.

Anonymous said...

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dear Soulmate,

i also wrote something at the daffodils ... well, that might be of 'some' interest ...

...Lakhwant.


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