Thursday, August 03, 2006

Ego Issues

So there are ego issues with the person with whom you work.. He always has something against you to say.. He is always criticizing you and pulling you down... He is always interfering with your work.. He always has problems with whatever work you do... He is always cutting you... He is always on the look out to get in tiff with you... On top of it, you always help him whenever there is a need..... Whats the best thing to avoid any conflicts!!! I suppose avoid him and do your work to the best of your ability as long as your manager is happy....

But for how long will you do this... There has to be an end to it.. This cannot go on forever and ever.... The day you say something to reply back, the person just stops talking to you... He thinks that you have a big mouth and you have no right to reply him back... Moreover the person is going to be a manager soon so he thinks he can say and do anything he wants to and no one will react to it... How very wrong he is....

All of the above has happened recently with me.. My colleague behaved and I gave just one reply.. Since then no more talking... Fine enough.. I tried to forget everything and be normal in our professional relationship but somehow he doesnt seem to be...

So now we are two poles apart and I am very happy atleast....... No more snapping from him.....

2 comments:

Zona said...

o boy , i laughed a lot reading this one ,
it sometimes happens yar , both with the girls and boys ,

In both the cases the reason behind it may b different ,
i think that guy was hurt sometime ago by u or may b he felt something negative sometime back which might have happent without ur knowledge from ur side ,

it happens always with somene or the other , and i felt funny reading this , thers one way to get things staright ask for some simple helps , and he will have to talk and it eventualy will straighten things up .

BY the way i had read ur previous blogs one about adoption and all , would like to know ur feedback for my comment in there and othe ones with that blog ,

Soulmate said...

Thanks for reading my posts and putting your comments.. Really appreciate your effort.. Well, this incident was no funny.. The person is going to be a manager soon and already he has started showing the attitude.. Its just not me who feels the same but everyone around.. Anyway, I have never been bothered by these things till the time they cross the limits and which is what happened here.. Seems like a small kids fight!!!