Tuesday, April 18, 2006

Disclosure of Feelings

How do you communicate to the person that you love him, like him, want to spend your life with him, he is the one you have been looking for, he is the one who gives you the comfort when you need it, he is the one who pulls you up when you are feeling low, he is the one with whom you can share everything, he is the one you can talk to about each and every thing you can think of, you dont have to think twice before calling him ? Apart from all this you are also sure that the other person also feels the same about you but is either hesitant or reluctant to speak up.

Well, what I feel is that there is no harm in telling the person. The only worst thing that can happen is that the person will refuse. I dont think that either side will lose anything. Just one thing comes to my mind. What will happen to the existing relationship of friendship, understanding? Will it be the same or different afterwards? Guess it again depends on how they take it. Sometimes life brings us to such situations which makes it difficult to decide. If we express, we might be considered as very outgoing, fast, way ahead. If we dont, then we might lose that special someone forever.

My personal opnion would be to go ahead and express. Atleast I will not regret later for not disclosing my feelings when life gave me a chance....

4 comments:

mar00ned said...

This post is quite a contrast from your "Meeting a Stranger" waala post.

Soulmate said...

Why do you feel so?? Meeting a stranger post says whether we should meet that unseen friend or not. This post is basically to say that we should go ahead in expressing our feelings. In this case we know the person very well and we want him to be with us all the time.

Zona said...

ok , saying ur feelings is very fine , but the question is will u stand up to that through out all the situation rather than beat around the bush when something good strikes ?????

There r very few people who stand by what they say ,,

Soulmate said...

Ma'm... of course I know what I am saying... There is no beating around the bush... Dont believe in it...